The Heart that accepts, the mind that doesnt.



Lets begin a little ethical way like Why we are born, What is the purpose of our birth; I hope we all are familiar with these questions and many receive answers that are written in religious books. The part is do we people really follow what we learn from the books I hope hardly any. So in simple words we can say we live the life in our own controlled way.
We really don’t value but if we think the number of things our body is coordinating we would be surprised and the same is again a reaction of our body too.Thats the magic we have in us and I feel all have magical powers in them to maintain the coordination of the whole body, infact a doctor could have explained this part better.
Whether true or not but every human in this world had a crush on somebody and to be more precise we can add someday. Some were expressive enough to voice out the matter some still reserve it down their heart. The three things that get involved in this are heart,mind and the inner voice.
The inner voice is always confused between the heart and the mind. The love and breakup is a common fever in todays world but the real thing behind is the insecurities we have housed in our mind. There are moments where boy/girl who sees people cheating upon their loved ones and it creates insecurity in their minds. The more you come across such incidents the more your mind gets disturbed and it’s the magical touch of our mind that we start connecting it to our life and realise the situation. The moment any part of it is occurring in reality we feel the story will turn out the way we have imagined in brain and hence the mind asks you to rebel against your significant other and which eventually increases in due course of time and we end up with thing for which we were rebelling.
The most common is the phone calls coming busy for a longer duration is the most common insecurity criteria and this is the part they have collected from their surroundings and hence they rebel at that moment. This reaction is an obvious attempt similar to the pulling of hands on touching a heated object and its spontaneous. The significant other whether loyal or disloyal reacts weird for being true in case of former and for being caught in case of latter. Here on starts the imaginative phase for the person and he moves away from the reality and spontaneously reacts on an occasion coincident with the imaginative story.
This scenario departs both from each other and then the realisation of missing someone special starts and the person feels he/she has over reacted and here some approach back, some stay back for ego and some feel they are rid of a hell lot of misunderstanding.
After all this, still the inner voice remains unclear whether he/she should connect again or not and if you want the best realisation of this is when you see an incoming call from your ex and you are in a dilemma whether to receive or ignore and as per the psychology of people its seen people generally receive and start an formal conversation and then the ego factor comes into play that prevents such incoming calls and hence it all ends soon.
The point is none of them were wrong at any stage since love occurs at a stage where the brain is immature enough to react in the most childish way possible and the consequences that it receives makes it mature to move ahead in life. We sometimes feel the lost love, the last lovely conversation thats no more but just sum up the whole in the memory slot.
The things strike back again and again cause the love had never been less for the other since fight and prior to that only the whole sort of scenario turned the wave in the other direction.
A child born learns things from its surrounding and do u think it stops learning in a particular age, the answer is a definite no and hence it reacts for securing its love and eventually converts it to overreaction and loses it out. The love fights if written down or recorded sounds            to be the most childish fight a person had in his/her life.
So, those in love should take it sportively and those who lost love should take it to their memory slot as these are fantastic experiences that made you what you are today.
Write your story so that people see how lovely it was and always nourish it as a good memory rather than maintaining a breakup diary.

Wish u all a happy life………………

Lots of Love Kishen……………


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