Survival strategies

Understand that to be the real you a certain amount of selfishness is necessary! Your focus has to shift to yourself. Who are you really? And what do you want? The first step is to understand yourself and know your priorities — listen to your mind and body language. Know your strengths; more important, know your weaknesses. Have the confidence to be yourself and not copy anyone else. Make it a habit to look your best and feel good all the time. Nurture your mind with stimulating conversations, reads, and other challenging activities. What are the things that give you happiness? Indulge in them. Often. When are you most uncomfortable and irritated? Shun those activities. Focus on your most important relationships and don’t waste time with negative souls. Dream big, and empower yourself to fulfil those dreams!

A column from Times of India ,i liked it hope you too.... Realisation of what ails you is half the battle won; the rest is all about maintaining a firm control on life and balance within Sometimes you do not realise you are in the midst of a vast silence till it is pierced through with sound. Often, you may not notice noise until it ends abruptly and silence prevails. You may not notice how dark it is till a light is flicked on. Sometimes you do not know how agitated you have been, till a caressing hand calms you. The absence of some people makes you realise the significance of their presence.     And then – sometimes you don’t know there’s a gaping hole in your soul till someone or something comes along to fill it and lift you to euphoric heights. My Facebook status for the last few days has been – ‘A hole in your soul? Let’s see, how can that be mended?’ It aroused interesting responses, both off and online. “But where is the soul nowadays?” asked a frie...

Many people ask you who is your best teacher and i think the answer should be unanimous that "Life is my best teacher.". It teaches you in the most practical way and you learn from it,commiting mistakes and rectifying them in future. The world is strange ,people commit a lot of mistakes but they always look for others mistakes,so its better to leave the strange world's comments and learn what your best teacher teaches you. Live like a free bird,give love in return to the person who even hates you and one day they will feel guilty for their act. Revenge and war never gave profit to anyone, it was always loss on both the sides. Treat persons well coz the day they will be away from you, you will feel their absence and repend for your act. Every individual in this world has an unique story and if noted down well can turn out to be a good book coz its a true story with no drama enclosed herewith. people should put effort to make their story interesting and ...